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431 我们应该如何引导出和保持儿童天性的善良？

Aug 3, 2012: What should we do to bring out and preserve the native goodness in children? Bhagawan explains to us today.

The human heart when young is very soft. It responds to grief and pain in fellow beings. It is the example of elders, the lessons they receive from parents, the company they get into, and the wrong training they receive in school and society that harden their hearts into stone. Parents must not find fault with others in the vicinity of children or show their hatred or envy before their tender minds. Children should be taught to share the grief and joy of others; and to be never jealous of others happiness or success. Instead of giving room to the feeling of envy, teach them to emulate the hard work of the successful, to pray for intelligence, or for a sharper memory. Keep those young hearts soft.

- Divine Discourse, Apr 18 1966

人的心肠在小时候非常柔软，对同伴的悲伤和痛苦，它都有所反应。是大人们的坏榜样、从父母那儿学来的东西、他们所交的朋友、以及他们在学校和社会所受的错误训练，使他们变成铁石心肠。父母绝对不可以在孩子面前说别人的不是，切勿在稚嫩的心灵面前表露自己的憎恨或嫉妒心。要教小孩子分担别人的悲伤，分享别人的快乐，并且绝不嫉妒别人的快乐或成功，要教他们模仿成功者的努力，教他们去祈求得到聪明才智，或是清晰的记忆力，而不要生起嫉妒心。让孩子的心肠保持柔软。

Good character is developed and sustained by constant practice of good actions.