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2015/01 纪律 -- 虔诚的一个强制性的必要条件(下)
 
(录自1996年6月19日所赐予的神圣讲道)
 
(接续上章。。)
 
在吃的方面,抑制还是必要的,而一个人只需吃他所需求的量。吃之前,你祈祷:
 
梵是供奉,梵也是供品。
供奉者是梵,
而接受供奉的火也是梵。
凡看到梵于他所做的一切行动中的人,他会达到梵。
 
当你把食物供奉给神时,在你之内的神会回应说,“我会以Vaishwanara(火神君)的操作机能消化食物。我只吃最低限度的需要。”如果一个人吃得过量,火神君会给予警告,“不要给我太多的食物了!”如果一个人不理会警告,坚持多吃,他的肚子毕竟会感到不舒服;其实,肚子是诸多疾病的源头,所谓病从口入是也。因此,决不要吃得过量或过饱。吃得节制意味着只吃七分饱就够了。

纪律必须成为你生活中的一个必要的部分,涵盖各个方面,活动与行为;这是调整你生活的正确方法。纪律再所必需,因为它是Karma Yoga(行动瑜伽)的精髓,让你达到完美并成为行动的主宰。这样的支配或主宰要求抑制,调整,严控及严守神的诫命,在这一切中,纪律是主要的根基。而当你完全掌控你的行为时,你就有资格被称为Vidyavantulu 或一个真正受过教育的人。Vid 这个字的意思是智慧,指的是,教育不仅是智育而已。换句话说,真正的教育在于使知识绽开成智慧的花朵。
 

人啊!
你夸耀自己博览群书,满腹经纶,
而以获得暂时性的知识为荣。
若缺乏谦卑,你不能,
双手合十地降服于神,
而凡此种种,其意义又何在?

 
切莫自称你已阅读了许多书籍而以你的学问为傲。反之,你应该谦卑,并双手合十,因为谦卑是灵性中的第一个步骤。两手合在一起的顶礼叫做Namaskaram(译注:凡我现在的一切和拥有的一切都得自您的恩宠。)Namaskaram的内在意义是什么?当两只手的十个手指合在一起顶礼时,它是五大行动器官与五大知识器官之统一与和谐的一个象征性的表达。

Namaskaram(顶礼)表示看到分殊中的单一。真正的灵性意指在众生中看到同样的阿特瑪(自性,纯灵)。顶礼的动作因此不仅在身体上有其重要性而在灵性上也深具意义。梵文‘namama’的意思是‘不是我’。顶礼因此也可以解释为减少自我乃至于最终彻底消除自我的一种行为。‘Mama’ 意谓一切都是我的,而‘namama’意谓无物属于我。就像这句话,“哦,斯瓦米,一切都是您的!”换句话说,顶礼的意思是指,以无物属于我之感觉去降服于神。这样的谦虚和完全降服于神的精神不能在没有基本的纪律下达到,因此,重要的是,纪律必须结合而成为从早到晚你所执行的每一个行为的一部分。

今天的世界,纪律已失去了其基本意义,也就是失去了严格控制感官与信念。是故,多数人无视于感官控制的重大需要,反而视之为某种不具重大意义的事物。例如眼睛,它必须时时加以警戒,“哦,眼睛,你在看什么?决不看任何不好的东西。”总之,纪律可归结为心念与感官的主宰,而缺乏它,行为的控制是不可能的。

一切就是那么简单。非善勿视,只视善。非善勿言,只言善。非善勿闻,只闻善。非善勿思,只思善。非善勿行,只行善。这就是归神之道。总要积极地行善,视善,言善,闻善和思善 --- 这是你必须遵守的纪律。一定要控制住你的舌头。不论你受到怎么样的刺激,你总得保持冷静和抑制。完美的平等心 --- 那是完全控制的标志。

同学们!连鸟兽也会过正规的生活。然而,唯独人类缺乏基本纪律,虽然他们接受教育,求得知识。你一定看到了,许多猴子徘徊在宿舍周围。如果你仔细观察,你不难发现,牠们会保持静默,最少一天一个小时。飞禽也是这样,每天保持一段时间的静默。在强烈的对比下,人类就相形见绌,难以保持静默。是的,很少看到人们保持静默;而如果有人试图反其道而行,培育起静默的习性,他们就会被人嘲弄和取笑。要追随那些有心遵守纪律者并尽量保持静默。

谁是梵或神?静默是神。其实,静默加上绝对的静止就是神 — 这种行为就是与纯净而完全的静默相关的高尚境界。当你能控制言谈时,其他的就很容易受到控制了。就感官而言,眼睛只能看,耳朵只能听,鼻子只能嗅。这些器官没有第二个功能。相对的,舌头就有两个功能,说话和品尝。这个多出来的功能也附带多一个责任;之所以先要控制舌头就是这个原因。

你们很多人可能知道,当你们给轮胎打气时,务必要小心谨慎。有些人觉得所有轮胎都必须被填满到相同的气压。这是不对的;事实上,车前面的轮胎,其气压略比车后面的轮胎高些。如果气压高于应有的,它就必须被减低;同样,太低就必须加高。

伟大的圣者,Ramakrishna Paramahamsa(罗摩基士拿),住在Bengal(孟加拉)的一个叫Kamarpukur(干瑪古普尔)的乡村,位于恒河(Ganges)岸边。不像其他地方的婆罗门,孟加拉的婆罗门吃淡水鱼,并因此而被称为Matsya Brahmins 或吃鱼婆罗门。只要他们到河边洗澡,他们一定会带些鱼回家。

要从干瑪古普尔到加尔各答城市,必须坐船渡过恒河。罗摩基士拿时常往返两地。当渡河时,他总是召集船上所有孩子并告诉他们有关促进虔诚与灵性价值观的故事。受到伽利期(kali yuga)不断增长的负面影响,这样的善良行为竟遭到污蔑。因此,难怪船上的许多年轻人,以及孩子的父母们都不喜欢罗摩基士拿之所为,并质问:“为什么要为这些可怜的孩子们洗脑?为什么在这么小的年龄就要虔诚膜拜?难道不能等到退休年龄才赞颂罗摩,基士拿和哥文达的名号?”

虽然受到这样的讥嘲,得力于他具有魅力的个性和神圣的光辉,罗摩基士拿不但吸引许许多多的年轻人,也激发他们加入修道院而住在他的精舍内,过着Sannyasis(舍离者)或僧人的生活。每一天,罗摩基士拿会指派其中一人到加尔各答去并带一些鱼回来。有一天,轮到一个名叫Brahmananda(梵喜)的年轻僧人值班。他到码头去坐船,准备到加尔各答去。看到身穿橙色长袍的梵喜上船,许多人立即开始诋毁罗摩基士拿而说,“那疯子无所事事,他的徒弟也是如此,就像眼前这一个。”在他们眼中,罗摩基士拿正收留有才华的青少年并摧毁他们。

听到这无理的评语,梵喜之感到非常苦恼是可以理解的。然而,他性格温和,不加以反驳。自己一个人静静地承受这痛苦,他取消行程而转回精舍。看到梵喜心烦意乱,罗摩基士拿问道,“发生了什么事?你为什么哭了?”梵喜回答,“师父,我只是不能忍受船上的人对您的批评。我不在乎人家说我的坏话,但如果他们诋毁您,辱骂您,那就深深地伤害到我了!”

装着生气的样子,罗摩基士拿斥责梵喜说,“忍受他人对你师父的辱骂和毁谤,你还能自称为一个信徒吗?当你的师父受到辱骂时,你怎么能够保持缄默?忍受他人对自己师父的侮辱难道不是一项罪行?辱骂一个导师的人固然犯了罪而忍受他人辱骂自己师父的信徒亦何尝不是犯了罪。你不是一个好信徒,不宜在这修道院呆下去。立即离开此地!”梵喜不回应,只是哭泣着。

第二天,由一个叫Narendra(纳仁德罗)的年青人接班,坐船到加尔各答去;他就是Vivekananda (辨喜)。就在辨喜买票上船时,船员开始嘲笑他。愤怒的辨喜大吼一声,“闭嘴!”这使得对方更气势汹汹。辨喜于是决定诉诸武力,抓起一人并警告所有人,如果不立即停止辱骂,他会一一地把他们抛下河。那种举动把这些小人给吓倒了。顿时,每一个人都静了下来。辨喜于是得以顺利到加尔各答去买鱼而完成他的任务。

辨喜回到精舍后,罗摩基士拿问,“今天发生了什么事?”
 

“一如梵喜去时所发生的一样。”
“你怎么应付?”
“师父受到辱骂时,我能保持缄默吗?我挥手痛击他们并威胁要把他们抛下河里!”

 
听到这解释,罗摩基士拿指责辩喜说,“你身穿黄袍并住在此修道院里,然而你却似乎没有容忍之心。如果你不能自制,你进入修道院修行是何目的?外面世界的人就像是乌鸦,心情浮躁,随心所欲地言所欲言。你不应该太在乎他们所说的话。要修成一个舍离者必须时常保持冷静与平和。”

深感困惑的纳仁德罗问道,“师父,昨天您给梵喜的忠告与今天您对我所说的话适得其反!到底哪一种是正确的?昨天的还是现在的?”罗摩基士拿然后说,“哦!愚昧的年轻人,轮胎的气过多,就得放气以减低气压。同样,气压不足就得加气到所需的程度!”

要因材施教,不能一成不变;必须视情况与受教者个人的素质而加以裁定,同时,也必须考虑受教者的吸收能力。恒河之水虽多,但能拿多少回家就看你所提的容器的大小了。同样,不能一律以同样的教导和课程传授大家,必须因人施教。对求道者而言,神是依据个人的吸收能力去赐予能量给每一个人的,而吸收能力则视一个人的自律程度而定。通过纪律才能增强你的吸收能力。缺乏稳定就做不到,而缺乏纪律就不可能超凡入圣了。

这里有一个小例子。设若每天傍晚六点你不是唱峇赞就是静坐。假如有一天,你在那个特定时间乘巴士出游。一些人认为灵性修习必须只在规定的地点执行。那是不对的。关键在于活动本身而不是活动地点。因此,在适当的时间,你在哪儿静坐都无妨。正在出游也没关系,因为在巴士上,你也能想着神。你不必到某个特定的地点去跟神会合;相反地,不论你身在何处,你的心都可以想着神。只要勤于职守,克尽厥职,你必获益匪浅。

时间是众生的主宰,因为当大限来临时,一切众生都必须向时间俯首称臣。然而,时间也有一个主宰。谁是那主宰?它就是神。人们相信,有一个叫Yama(阎摩)的掌管死亡之神。实际上,阎摩仅是一个时间的象征性代表。不明白这道理,孩子们和年轻人怀疑为什么太阳会有一个叫阎摩的儿子。太阳有个后代的观念或感觉来自误解。那么,我们该怎么去了解时间呢?基本上,它应该经由日出日落的现象形成,而这两种现象都与太阳相关。我们以从日出到日落计算出共有12小时的时间;再者,日出被定为早上6点而日落则是傍晚6点。换句话说,我们以太阳在空中的运行来跟时间扯上关系;就是因为这个太阳与时间之间的关联,古人才开始藉父子关系来描述这两者。

就真理的终极本质而言,类似的深思与分析在所必需。这样的探询必须详细地探究行动对自性(阿特瑪)的关系,而只有这一点才能揭露真理(sathya,真实,真相)的真实意义。就阿特瑪或终极真理而言,怀疑是无立足的余地的。然而,在现代,人们经常舍弃经典所描述的许多事情,因为他们纯粹是基于物质术语和从狭隘观点上去看这些陈述的。这么做肯定是一大谬误。一个适当的,有深度的分析在所必需以便掌握经典的真正意义。举一个例子,据说毗湿奴,勒斯米和萨罗斯瓦蒂是诞生自莲花的。它实在的意思是,一切神圣之物都与心的莲花相关。那就是说,人们确实拥有良好的与邪恶的思想。这样的思想不属于心的领域而是念的领域。由于有念,你怎么想,你就会变成什么样子。

只是因为你不能鉴赏象征性的手法以掌握其内在的意义,你不能排斥经典。不可缺乏耐心而仓促怀疑或贬低Puranas(往世书)或经典神话。要有耐心,冷静,稳定,慢慢地去理解正确的意思。决不容怀疑干扰你的心念。往世书并非出自籍籍无名,不称职的平庸之流的手。这些作者不是别人而是名垂千古的圣者如,Valmiki(蚁垤或跋弥)和Vyasa(广博仙人,音译毗耶娑);他们都是智慧的化身。绝对不可怀疑经典有任何不实之处。无知的人也许不接受经典,但事实上,经典绝无丝毫不实的地方,也绝不会误导任何人步入歧途。相反地,它们指示理想主义和真理的康庄大道,乃不折不扣的智慧教材。

过一个理想的生活是重要的,而要做到这一点,你就必须少说话。要自律并遵守神的诫命。在任何情况下,纪律绝不能妥协。达尔卡德(Tarkad)的儿子,年仅16岁,他尚不能肯定父亲会否执行定时的膜拜,于是他要父亲许下诺言,一定要这么做。最后,是孩子完全的信心与严格的纪律使得父亲道歉。无疑,父子之间有年龄的差距。然而,同样的阿特瑪寓于他们两人之内。真理是一个而就真理而言,年龄是无关紧要的。真理是无法被分割的,而不同的种姓(caste),如代表最高阶级和最低阶级的Brahmins(婆罗门)与Sudras(首陀罗)也绝不会有分开的真理。真理总是一而不二。

吠陀经称,“Ekameva adviteeyam Brahma”,意思是,神只有一个。古印度传统富于阐扬真理的经典宣言。印度的智慧与文化传统已广泛地扩散到世界各地,而那就是你诞生于斯的文化和传统。是故,决不可遗忘和放弃你那精深,圣洁和神圣的传统。同时,不要让你的心念随其所愿地到处游荡。反之,要抑制和调节之以追随古老的文化,从而使你自然地继续留在正轨上。你的心念或许会漂浮不定而令你脱离正轨,然而你一定要保持坚定不移的意志。你应该成为心念的主宰而不是它的仆人。只有神才是你终极的主宰。

圣者Ramdas(罗姆达斯),主罗摩的一个伟大的信徒,他宣称,“主啊!我要服务您的仆人而成为仆人中的一个仆人并时时保留这个身份。”Bhagavatham(《薄伽梵》)提供一个像罗姆达斯的志望一样的故事,其中有一个重要的区别。故事围绕着一个去会见主的基士拿信徒,古吉拉(Kuchela)展开。古吉拉家境极为贫寒;但他不愿两手空空地去会见主。他所能带去的仅是一些用破旧的布包裹的米花,那是他拥有的一切了。基士拿高兴地接受那礼物,打开包裹并开始享用。在旁的古吉拉以痛苦和尴尬的神态观察着。他自责地想,“我一贫如洗,所能提供的只有用破布包裹的米花。即便如此,基士拿似乎快乐无比,吃得津津有味。虽然基士拿高兴,我却犯了一大错误,把这样的琐屑之物供奉给宇宙的统治者。”

这时基士拿的配偶鲁克米妮(Rukmini)跑前来阻止基士拿吃那些食物。古吉拉以为得罪了鲁克米妮,因为米花是不适宜供奉给一个像基士拿这样崇高身份者。但基士拿比谁都了解鲁克米妮,而为了使古吉拉了解鲁克米妮的用意,祂于是问她为何反对。鲁克米妮回答,“基士拿,您是古吉拉的仆人而我又是您的仆人。因此我应该吃您所吃的一部分!请您把剩下的让我吃吧!”

神的视力是无极限的,而祂高尚的设计是不可言喻的。不理解宇宙的无极,人类常常视神为等闲之事来对待。神的心的宽大是超乎想象之外,而不是凡人所能企及的。慢慢地,古吉拉开始体会到发生在他眼前的一切的浩瀚无垠。心中充满了神赐予的神圣显现,他拖着沉重的脚步缓慢地回家。抵达时,他被眼前的壮观景象惊呆了。他简陋的房子不见了,取而代之的是一幢美轮美奂的别墅,而妻子与孩子们都穿上华丽的服装且佩戴名贵的首饰。

妻子的内心充满喜悦,她奔向古吉拉,搂着他的双脚,开始倾诉她的情绪。她带着泪水说,“噢,我亲爱的丈夫,神是多么的慈悲和慷慨啊!告诉我,基士拿与你谈了些什么?祂跟你说了什么?神多仁慈啊!真的,祂是无以匹比的!”

古吉拉感动哽咽,缓慢地说,“你知道当我抵达圣殿之门时,我请守门人传达我到来的消息。我所期盼的只是准我进入,没想到基士拿反而亲自出来迎接我。一看到我,祂就跑向我,跑近我,站立一会儿,从头到脚打量了我一番,然后视我为一个久别重逢的灵魂一般地热烈地拥抱我。有谁能理解主这种无限的仁慈?!我这个,一贫如洗的古吉拉仅供奉一把米花,而祂接受那谦卑的供奉并以丰厚的财富洒向我们!有什么人能描述神的爱呢?我要表达的仅是:神是爱而爱是神;爱与神两者都不可言宣!神是没有极限的,祂的爱也是没有极限的。另一方面,人类反而把自己能付出的爱收缩起来。神的爱是扩张的,而人的爱却因为心胸狭窄而倾向于萎缩。”

同学们!斯瓦米的心是浩大得没有极限的。你们所有人的确都是阿特瑪的化身,你们一样能够也确实应该扩大你们的心。当我说,你是我的时,那些字眼有着圣爱的温馨。回馈之,你也必须培育起‘斯瓦米真的是你的’的感觉!原则上,你有权利宣称斯瓦米是你自己的。然而,你应该取得作此宣称的资格。要扩大你的爱,并谨慎地追随斯瓦米的教导,从而成就ananda(至福);除非你做到那一点,否则,你不能得到真正的幸福。只有当你遵从和追随斯瓦米的诫命于每一个字眼的意义上时,真实的至福才会降临于你。我总是做好准备去接纳你,但你却尚未做好准备到我这儿来!

摄影师在按下按钮拍照前,常常先给一个‘准备’的口信。如果你在那时已准备就绪,那么,照片就很理想。在准备的口信发出前,你大可左右摆动,然而一旦叫你准备时,你就必须做好准备,保持稳定。就圣灵的摄影师而言,没有人知道信号什么时候才发出。因此,你必须随时做好准备与神融为一体。没有预警,主导摄影的主或随时按下按钮,那么,你的照片就记录在祂心中了!如果你想要把好的照片记录下来,你就得随时做好准备。那就是我们在生活上必须秉持的心态,而只有纪律才能为这样的生活做好准备。
 
DISCIPLINE – A MANDATORY PREREQUISITE FOR DEVOTION (Part 2)
 
(Based on Divine Discourse delivered on June 19, 1996)
 
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Restraint is required in eating too, and one must eat only to the extent necessary. Before eating, you pray:
 
Brahman is the offering and Brahman is also the oblation.
He who offers is Brahman,
And the fire that receives the offering is also Brahman.
He who sees Brahman in all his actions would attain Brahman.
 
When food is offered to God, God within responds by saying, “Functioning as Vaishwanara, I digest the food. Eat only to the extent I require.” If one overeats, Vaishwanara warns, “Don’t send me any more food!” Ignoring the warning if one insists on overeating, one is bound to end up with an upset stomach; indeed, often stomach is where many ailments begin. Hence never overeat or even fill your stomach. Regulation in eating means that at least one quarter of your stomach must be empty at the end of the meal.

Discipline must become an integral part of your life, covering all aspects, activities and actions; this is the proper way to regulate your life. Discipline is essential because it is the very essence of Karma Yoga, which allows you to attain perfection and become the master of action. Such mastery demands restraint, regulation, strict control, and rigid adherence to God’s command, for all of which discipline is the principal foundation. And it is when you achieve complete mastery over your actions that you become eligible to be called vidyavantulu or a truly educated person. The word vid means wisdom, which implies that education means something more than mere knowledge. In other words, true education is that where knowledge flowers into wisdom.
 

O man!
You boast about books read and scriptures mastered,
And proud you are of ephemeral knowledge acquired.
What is the meaning of all this,
When lacking humility unable you are,
To submit to the Divine with folded hands?

 
Do not claim to have read many books and feel proud about your scholarship. Instead, be humble and fold your hands, for humility is the first step in spirituality. Salutation offered with two hands brought together is referred to as Namaskaram. What is the inner significance of Namaskaram? When the ten fingers of the two hands are brought together to offer Namaskaram, it is a symbolic representation of the unity and harmony of the five organs of action and the five organs of cognition.

Namaskaram thus stands for seeing unity in diversity. True spirituality implies seeing the same Atma in all beings. The gesture of Namaskaram is thus not only physically important but also has profound significance in spirituality. The Sanskrit phrase ‘na-mama,’ means ‘not me.’ Namaskaram can thus also be interpreted as an action that diminishes and eventually removes ego. ‘Mama,’ means everything is mine while ‘na-mama’ means nothing is mine. It is like saying, “O Swami! Everything is yours!!” In other words, Namaskaram implies surrendering to God with the feeling that nothing belongs to us. Such a spirit of humility and total surrender to God cannot come without basic discipline, which is why it is important that discipline be integrated with and become a part of every single action that one performs from dawn to dusk.

In today’s world, discipline has lost its fundamental meaning, which is that of strict control of the senses and the mind. That is why most people are totally ignorant about the vital need for sense control and instead associate discipline with something far less significant. The eyes, for example, must be cautioned, “Oh eyes! What is it that you are looking at? Never look at anything that is bad.” That is what discipline really boils down to namely, mastery of the senses and the mind without which mastery over action is impossible.

It is all very simple really. See no evil, see what is good. Talk no evil, talk what is good. Hear no evil, hear what is good. Think no evil, think what is good. Do no evil, do what is good; that is the way to God. Be positive always and do good, see good, talk good, hear good and think good – this is the discipline you must follow. Make sure to keep your tongue under control. No matter what the provocation, you should always remain calm and restrain yourself. Perfect equanimity – that is the hall mark of total control.

Students! Even birds and animals lead regulated lives. However, humans are sorely lacking in basic discipline, despite all their education and knowledge. You might have seen near your hostel monkeys wandering around. If you watch carefully, you would notice they remain silent for at least one hour during the day. Birds too remain silent for some time every day. In sharp contrast, humans can hardly keep quiet. Indeed, it is rare to see people being silent; and if some try to be different and cultivate the habit of being silent, they are made fun of. Follow the example of those who aspire to be disciplined and, whenever you can, try to observe silence.

Who is Brahman or God? Silence is God. In fact, silence combined with absolute stillness is God – such is the exalted status associated with pure and total silence. When speech is controlled, everything else easily comes under control. Among the sense organs, the eye can only see, the ears can only hear and the nose can only smell. None of these organs has a second capability. By contrast, the tongue has two capacities, the ability to taste and the ability to speak. This additional capability also brings with it added responsibility; that is why it is the tongue that must be controlled first.

Many of you may be aware of why care is needed while car tyres are filled with air. Some are under the impression that all tyres must be filled to the same pressure. This is not correct; the fact is the front tyres must be filled to a slightly greater pressure than the rear ones. If the pressure is higher than it ought to be, it must be decreased; likewise, if it is low, it must be increased.

The great saint Ramakrishna Paramahamsa used to live in an ashram in a village named Kamarpukur in Bengal, which was located on the banks of the river Ganges. Unlike their counterparts elsewhere, Brahmins in Bengal eat fresh-water fish and are thus known as Matsya Brahmins or fish-eating Brahmins. Whenever they went to the river for bathing, they would bring some fish back home.

To go from Kamarkupur to the city of Calcutta one has to cross the Ganges by boat. Often while Ramakrishna made such trips, he would gather all the children in the boat and tell them stories that promoted devotion and spiritual values. Thanks to the growing influence of the Kali Age, such good acts came to be denigrated. It was thus no surprise that many young people riding the boat as also the parents of children in the boat did not like what Ramakrishna was doing and raised questions like: “Why are these poor children being indoctrinated? Why is devotion needed at this early age? Can not the worship of God and chanting names like Rama, Krishna and Govinda wait till retirement?”

Despite this ridicule, thanks to his magnetic personality and Divine effulgence Ramakrishna not only drew many youth to him but also inspired many of them to join the monastic order and live in his ashram as sannyasis or monks. Every day Ramakrishna would assign one of them to go to Calcutta and get fish from there, and one day it was the turn of a young monk named Brahmananda to do so. The monk went to the pier to take a boat to go to Calcutta, and seeing the orange-robe clad Brahmananda get into the boat many there immediately began disparaging Ramakrishna and said, “That mad man does not do any work nor do his boys, like this one, for example.” In their view, Ramakrishna was collecting talented youth and ruining them.

Hearing such outrageous remarks Brahmananda understandably became very much upset. However, being a soft person he did not protest. Suffering in silence he returned to the ashram without making the trip. Seeing Brahmananda distraught Ramakrishna asked, “What happened? Why are you in tears?” Brahmananda replied, “Master, I just could not bear to hear the way people on the boat talked about you. I don’t care if people say bad things about me; but when they vilified you, I felt deeply hurt!”

Feigning anger, Ramakrishna chastised Brahmananda and said, “Can you call yourself a disciple after putting up with abuses hurled at your Master? How could you remain silent when your Master was being vilified? Is it not a sin to tolerate the abuses directed at one’s Master? The one who abuses a Guru commits a sin as also a disciple who puts up with it. You are not a good disciple and are unfit to be in the ashram. Leave this place at once!” Brahmananda did not respond but just went on crying.

Next day, it was the turn of young Narendra, also known as Vivekananda, to do the boat trip. Even as Vivekananda purchased a ticket and boarded the boat, the boatmen began to mock him. Infuriated Vivekananda roared, “Shut up!” which made the offenders even more aggressive. Vivekananda then resorted to force and, picking up one man, warned that if the abuse did not stop forthwith he would throw them one by one into the river. That frightened the mob and promptly everyone became silent. Vivekananda was thus able to make the trip, buy fish and complete his assignment.

When Vivekananda returned Ramakrishna asked, “What happened today?”
 

“Whatever happened when Brahmananda went happened again.”
“How did you respond?”
“Will I remain silent if my Guru is vilified? I thrashed the offenders and even threatened to throw them into the river!”

 
Hearing this Ramakrishna reprimanded Vivekananda and said, “You are wearing ochre robe and live here in the ashram; and yet, you seem to have no forbearance. When you have no control over yourself, what purpose is there in your staying in the ashram? People in the outside world are like crows; they are fickle and will talk as they please. You ought not to pay attention to what they say. People who become sannyasis must always remain calm and peaceful.”

Deeply perplexed Narendra asked, “Master, yesterday you gave Brahmananda some advice but today you are telling me exactly the opposite! Which of these two is the correct advice? The one you gave yesterday or what you are telling me now?” Ramakrishna then said, “O foolish young man, when there is excess air in the tyre, the pressure has to be reduced. Likewise, when the pressure is not enough, the tyre must be filled to the required extent!”

Teaching and preaching cannot be the same for all and must be tailored to the situation and the nature of the person receiving the teaching, as also the capacity of that person to absorb the teachings. Although there is plenty of water in the Ganges, what each person carries home depends on the size of the container he brings. Similarly, all cannot be taught the same lesson and teaching must be tailored to the recipient. Where spiritual seekers are concerned, God bestows energy each according to the individual’s capacity to absorb, which in turn is determined by how disciplined the person is. It is through discipline that you can enhance your capacity to absorb. Lack of steadiness would not do, and without discipline it is not possible to attain God.

Here is a small example. Let us say that at 6 PM every day you either sing bhajans or do meditation. Suppose on a particular day you happen to be travelling in a bus at the time you have set apart for this particular activity. Some hold the view that spiritual practices must be observed only in designated places. That is not correct. What matters is the activity itself and not the place. Thus when the time is right, you can meditate wherever you happen to be. It does not matter if you are travelling, because even in the bus you can think of God. You do not have to go to a particular place to be with God; on the contrary, your mind can dwell on God no matter where you are. As long as you are regular and diligent in your duties, all benefits would accrue to you.

Time is the master of all mortals since all must bow to time, when the moment comes. But time too has a Master. Who is that Master? It is God. People imagine that there is a Lord of Death known as Yama. In truth, Yama is just a symbolic representation of time. Unaware of this, children and young people wonder how the Sun could have a son named Yama the Lord of Death. Feelings like the Sun having an offspring arise out of misunderstanding. How then are we to understand time? Basically it should be via the phenomenon of sunrise and sunset, both of which are related to the Sun. We count time by saying that from between sunrise to sunset there are 12 hours; further, sunrise is taken to be at 6 o’clock in the morning and sunset at 6 o’clock in the evening. In other words, we relate time to the movement of the Sun in the sky; and it is on account of this connection between the Sun and time that ancients began to describe the two via a father and son relationship.

Similar reflection and analysis is needed where the ultimate nature of Truth is concerned. Such inquiry must explore the relationship of action to the Atma for that alone can reveal what Sathya or Truth really means. Where the Atma or the Ultimate Truth is concerned, there is no room or scope for any doubt. However, in modern times people often dismiss many things said in the scriptures because they view these statements purely in physical terms and from a narrow perspective. It is a mistake to do so. A proper and in-depth analysis is needed to grasp the real meaning of the scriptures. It is said, for example, that Vishnu, Lakshmi and Saraswati are born out of the Lotus. What it actually means is that everything Divine is associated with the Lotus of the Heart. That said, people do have good and bad thoughts. Such thoughts do not belong to the realm of the Heart but to the mind. Thanks to the mind, what you think you become.

Just because you are unable to appreciate the symbolism and grasp the inner meaning, you cannot dismiss the scriptures. Don’t be impatient and rush to doubt or trash the Puranas or scriptural mythology. Be patient, calm, steadfast, and take your time to understand the correct meaning. Never allow doubts to agitate your mind. The Puranas are not the works of unknown and incompetent writers. They have come to us from none other than immortal sages like Valmiki and Vyasa, who were the very embodiments of wisdom. Given that, there is absolutely no room for any untruth in the Puranas. Ignorant people may dismiss the Puranas but the fact is that the Puranas do not have an iota of untruth and can never lead one to the wrong path. On the contrary, they show the path to idealism and Truth, and are nothing short of text books of Wisdom.

It is important to lead an ideal life, and to do so one must first reduce talking. Be disciplined and obey God’s command. Under no circumstances must discipline be compromised. Tarkad’s son was just sixteen years old. Yet, unsure that his father would offer regular worship, the boy made his father promise that he would do so. In the end, it was the boy’s total faith and rigorous discipline that made his father seek an apology. No doubt there was an age gap between the father and the son. However, the same Atma was present in both of them. Truth is one and age becomes irrelevant where Truth is concerned. Truth can never be fragmented and there is no such thing as separate truths for different castes such as Brahmins and Sudras, who represent the two ends of the caste spectrum. Truth is always one, and never two.

The Vedic declaration “Ekameva adviteeyam Brahma,” means that God is only one. The ancient tradition of India is rich in scriptural declarations that proclaim Truth. The wisdom and cultural tradition of India have diffused widely into the world, and that is the culture and tradition into which you are born. Therefore, never forget or give up your heritage, which is profound, sacred and Divine. Also, do not allow your mind to wander as it pleases. Instead, restrain and regulate it to follow ancient culture so that you automatically stay on the right path. Your mind may waver and try to make you stray to the wrong path but you must remain firm and steadfast. You should be the master of your mind and not its servant. God alone must be your ultimate Master.

Saint Ramdas a great devotee of Lord Rama declared, “Lord, I want to serve Your servants, becoming thus a servant of servants and remain so at all times.” A story in the Bhagavatham offers an important variation of the aspiration of Ramdas. The story revolves around Kuchela a devotee of Krishna who went to see the Lord. Kuchela was very poor; yet he did not want to go empty handed. All he could manage was some puffed rice which he wrapped in a shabby piece of cloth since that was all he had. Krishna happily accepted the gift, opened the package and began eating what was in it, even as Kuchela watched with great agony and embarrassment. Reproaching himself Kuchela began to think, “I am poor and all I could offer was something packed in a piece of old cloth. Even so, Krishna seems to be happy with the gift and is clearly relishing the puffed rice I brought. Krishna may be happy but I have committed a serious blunder bringing such a trivial offering to the Emperor of the Universe.”

Meanwhile, Rukmini the consort of Krishna rushed towards Krishna and stopped Him from eating. Kuchela thought that Rukmini was offended because puffed rice was an inappropriate offering for an exalted one like Krishna. But Krishna knew Rukmini better, and to make Kuchela understand Rukmini’s motive He asked her why she was objecting. Rukmini replied, “Krishna, you are the servant of Kuchela while I am your servant. I should therefore get my portion of what You are eating! Please therefore, give me what is left of what you are eating.”

God’s vision is infinite and the grandeur of His Design indescribable. Unable to understand Cosmic Infinity, humans often treat matters dealing with Divine in a most casual manner. God is unimaginably large-hearted and it is impossible for a mortal to be likewise. Slowly, Kuchela began to grasp the immensity of what was happening before his eyes. His mind full of vision of the Divine he had been blessed with, Kuchela slowly trudged back home and when he reached it, he was hardly prepared for the spectacle that greeted him. Gone was his humble house and in its place stood a great mansion, while his wife and children were dressed in gorgeous clothes and wearing expensive jewellery.

Her Heart full of joy, Kuchela’s wife ran to her husband and, clinging to his feet, began pouring out her emotions. “O my dear husband,” she cried, “How merciful and bountiful God is! Tell me, what did Krishna and you speak about? What did He say to you? How kind and compassionate God is! Truly, He is incomparable!!”

Choked with emotion Kuchela slowly said, “You know, as soon as I reached palace gate I sent word to Krishna through His gatekeepers about my arrival. All I was expecting was permission to enter. Instead Krishna personally came to receive me. And the moment He saw me He rushed towards me, came close, stood for a moment, carefully looked me over from head to toe, and then folded me in a warm embrace as if I was a long-lost soul. Who can comprehend the Lord’s Infinite compassion?! I, poor Kuchela, offered a mere handful of puffed rice and He has acknowledged that humble offering by showering us with abundant wealth! Is there anyone who can describe God’s Love? All I can say is that God is Love and Love is God; and Love and God are both indescribable! God being limitless, so is His Love. Humans, on the other hand, contract whatever love they are capable of. God’s love is expansive while the love of humans tends to shrink on account of narrow-mindedness.”

Students! Swami’s Heart is infinitely large. All of you being verily the embodiments of the Atma, you too can and indeed ought to broaden your Hearts. When I say you are Mine, those words have the sweet fragrance of Divine Love. Reciprocating it, you too must cultivate the feeling that Swami is truly yours! In principle, you have the right to claim Swami as your own. However, you should earn the eligibility to make such a claim. Expand your Love and meticulously follow Swami’s instructions to achieve Ananda or Pure Bliss; until you do that, you cannot be truly happy. Real Bliss can come to you only when you obey and follow Swami’s commands in every sense of the word. I am always ready to receive you but you are not getting ready to come to Me!

Before clicking a picture, photographers always give an alert signal with the word, “Ready!”. If you are steady at that moment, then the picture would come out nicely. Before the signal is given you can be shuffling about, but once you have been alerted you must be steady and ready. Where the Divine photographer is concerned, no one knows when His signal would come. Thus, you have to be ever ready to be united with the Divine. Without any prior alert, Lord the Master Photographer may click and your picture would be recorded in His Heart! If you want the right picture to be recorded, then you must be in perpetual readiness. That is the spirit in which life must be lived, and discipline alone can prepare you for such a life.
 
 
 
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